Some tips I recommend as a Nanny

🚫 1. Nannies Who Limit Children's Freedom

• Some nannies restrict children's play and exploration for their own convenience or laziness.

• They prefer to keep them still rather than allowing them to move and express themselves freely.

• They scold children for crying in public instead of comforting them and addressing their emotional needs.
   

📱 2. Distraction and Neglect Due to Socializing or Phone Use

• In many parks or play areas, it’s common to see nannies gathered together while children are left unsupervised.

• Excessive phone use prevents them from reacting quickly to any danger or the children’s needs.

• Some pretend to be attentive but only intervene if a child cries loudly or falls.
   

📝 3. Fake References

• Many nannies provide fake references or use family members to appear more trustworthy.

• Parents must verify references by calling previous employers or requesting solid proof of experience.

• There have been cases where nannies with negative backgrounds manage to get hired due to manipulated references.
   

• 🚧 4. Nannies Who Hinder Children's Development for Their Own Comfort

• Some nannies, instead of encouraging exploration and learning, prefer to keep children still to avoid moving too much. This can negatively impact their development in several ways:

• ❌ Examples of How They Prevent Children from Exploring

• They don’t let them run, climb, or play in the park because they prefer to stay seated.

• They ignore or discourage the child’s curiosity when they want to try something new.

• They opt for passive activities, like watching TV, instead of interactive games.

• ⚠️ Consequences on Self-Esteem and Learning

• Children may develop a fear of trying new things.

• They become more insecure and overly dependent on adults.

• They lose opportunities to develop essential motor and cognitive skills.

• 🔍 Signs for Parents to Detect This Issue

• They notice that their child is less interested in playing or moving.

• The child shows fear or insecurity when trying new things.

• The nanny constantly makes excuses to avoid taking the child outside to play.

• ✅ Strategies to Ensure the Nanny Encourages Independence

• Ask the nanny to take the child to the park and allow them to explore under supervision.

• Observe if the nanny encourages discovery and learning in their environment.

• Ask the child about their day and check if they had active or only passive activities.

• Children must have the opportunity to move, explore, and learn without unnecessary limitations. As parents, being aware of this behavior in nannies can make a big difference in the child’s development.